If You're Gay and Cheating, I Understand Why

A phone call from a friend cracked open something I'd believed my whole life. 

This episode walks through a real conversation that challenged how I think about infidelity, specifically for those in mixed orientation marriages. 

If you're gay or lesbian and married to someone of the opposite sex, and you've stepped outside your marriage, this one's for you. 

Today we’re talking about:

• Why mixed orientation marriages create a two choice dilemma most people never have to face 
• What an affair actually does, and doesn't do
• How to move from justification toward integrity, without shame driving the conversation

This Week's Invitation 

Ask yourself honestly what your choices are impacting, and who deserves a say in them. Then take one honest step, even a small one, toward your spouse.

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This podcast is for educational purposes only. It does not replace therapy, and it's not a substitute for professional mental health care. The examples I share are brief snapshots designed to illustrate a principle and may not apply to every situation. Because every relationship is unique, consider these principles thoughtfully and seek individualized professional guidance when needed. If your relationship involves violence, intimidation, or you have concerns for your safety, please seek support from professionals who can help you assess your specific situation and address it appropriately.